Friday, 19 April 2013

Eat, pray, love in three days

After my last exam Hendrik and I decided to go on a mini vacation to Sardinia. Hendrik found great deals so we only payed 10 euros per person per flight. Hendrik was delighted.
The whole entire stay was a blessing. I was so exhausted from basicly studying non- stop sinc January first and some exams did not go the way I planned. I felt worthless, because this will ruin my average and my self- worth depends a lot on my grades. Big disapointment. It still hurts, but it was good to get away from it. I firmly believe that everything will eventually turn out well. Through this all Hendrik kept reassuring me that a) it will  indeed be all right b) I was worth a lot to him.
It was nice to be able to drive through the beautiful Italian country side and just talk. In our every day life we are both very busy and usually have the dinner conversations or way too long conversations in bed before we eventually fall asleep. But in Italy we were able to get the big picture. I am so blessed to be with this man.
Because of all the chaos in my head I also prayed a lot. One evening we sat on our balcony and prayed with tears running down our cheeks. One of the most powerful moments of our entire relationship so far. Incredible how far we have come.
Of course, since we were in Italy, we also ate a lot. The bad thing is that Italians usually eat several courses. This means the portions are very small, but still cost as much as an entire meal in Germany. This was a bit stupid, but we made up for it with lots of ice- cream.
Now,I will quit talking and let you enjoy the beautiful Italian nature (and some photos of  us):
                                                   The beach in Alghero


                                         Hendrik's dream car ;)
                                          Me in our rented car (another FIAT)

                                                    Flowers on the way to the beach
                                                               Stintino beach

                                                    Perfect clear water
                                                      awkward self- portrait of us,  lol
                                                                   Cappo Caccia

3 comments:

  1. I'm so glad you guys took a vacation! You deserve it girl! Remember that your worth is not in your grades--it's in God. I struggle with that too.

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  2. i second hendrik, yes it will be okay and yes, you will do great. and NO, your self-worth is NOT based on your grade. you deserve the vacation! we got our first real rain in Bali yesterday morning. after a long hot and sunny days, it's good to have a little rain. don't worry. it only lasted for like 3 hours though. then it's sunshine again

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  3. I'm so happy you got to go on vacation and relax. You deserve that so much.
    Eventually you'll shrug off your grades with a smile, when you realize later on that you're the only one that cares so much about it ;) I'm the same, grades mean a lot to me, but I had to realize this several times by now that it's not that important to others, not even employers :) So just relax, everything will be okay!
    And enjoy your time without studying :D
    Wonderful pics! I miss the beach so much.

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